Go get me an ice cream
Anthony “Ham” Delasco
History
does not record whether the ice cream in question was a Nutty Buddy or a cone
of Neapolitan, but when Anthony “Ham” Delasco told young Anthony Accetturo to
fetch a cold confection Delasco’s desire for a frosty treat wasn’t really the
issue. The issue was the one that sets the context for all others matters on
the street—who’s in charge.
Delasco was
the guy who said what was what, particularly when that what involved slot
machines, the numbers game and loan sharking in his part of North Jersey.
Accetturo, who at that point helped to run Delasco’s numbers game and collected
the occasional pound of flesh for his shylocking operation, was standing on the
corner, cracking wise with his cronies when Delasco sent him on his errand.
Saint Augustine
once observed those who would rise must begin by descending, to “first lay the
foundation of humility.” Accetturo, who eventually rose to lead the New Jersey
faction of the Lucchese crime family, later admitted in an interview with
Selwyn Raab that the errand had nothing to do with Delasco’s sweet tooth. “I
new that if I wanted to to stay with Ham and learn from him he had to have
absolute control over me… He had to break me and I took the bit in my mouth.” Delasco became his Myagi, teaching him the
niceties of his chosen craft, such as how to take the wax off of recalcitrant
debtors.
Years later
Dylan would sing that you need to serve somebody, even if you are “high degree
thief.” The irony is that Accetturo would become both a high degree thief and a
singer of sorts when, in his dotage, he informed on his colleagues to the feds.
His desire to serve a different master was set in motion when Anthony “Gaspipe”
Casso—a blood thirsty assassin --broke what Accenturo considered a key
principle of La Cosa Nostra by targeting Accetturo’s wife for murder. For Accetturo,
service was a two-way street.
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